E119: Who Need's To Leave Your Life NOW & Who You Need To Bring In To It W/ Dave Swillum
Every person in your life has an impact on how you feel, think, and operate. When we are going after our dreams and thinking outside the box as creatives and entrepreneurs people will create friction with you. People will question you, or believe in you but just live things that are negative to your missions which makes it harder for you to keep away from the habits you don’t want to portray. People are typically in good intention but we are the sum of the 5 people we spend the most time with. That’s why it’s important even if we aren’t looking to take people completely out of our life because we love them, we at least be very aware of what affect they have and make alterations to change that affect if it’s negative. It’s time to get the people harming you out of your life and bring in people that challenge you and make you stronger. We don’t have to get rid of loved ones we care for but it may be time to alter how they show up and appear in your life in order to form the life you want instead of what others want of you.
In This Episode We Cover
Who needs to leave your life?
Who needs to come in to your life?
You are the sum of the 5 people you hang with the most
We are altered but all who are around us
Difference between belief in you and challenging you
Do they hear you out? Or not
Time wasters - No respect for your time
Bad influences are sneaky
Breaking down mentors
People that ask how, not black or white
Sniffing out if people are fake supporting you on the internet
Do the actions line up with the words?
“ If someone’s f($*% up your steps, then it’s really hard to get to where you want to go to.” - Host Dave Swillum
“You can’t really feel good and meet good people and get them in there if you are bogged down by negative things and people that are messing with your dream.” - Host Dave Swillum
“They radiate something that makes you want to glow more.” - Host Dave Swillum
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